this is a long overdue blog. and i am glad that i took my time before i wrote or i could have written something very offensive. i felt compelled to write this because of recent events and other occurences that happened before 2006 ended that i just recently discovered. i am not gonna get into details of what those events are. but what i am really sore about is that i am being dragged into a belligerence that i am for no reason involved by person who also have nothing to do with the issue.
this entry is aptly titled "in defense of my mom" because indeed it is. on the 14th of june i received a message in my friendster from a maternal relative. this relative was just passing a message from another maternal relative about a secret that i dont know. and the secret was about who my real mother is. how very convenient of this maternal relative, to know a secret that according to him nobody knows. mind you, this is not the first time i was told of that and like what i have said before i do not give a damn.
the first time i was told of this was last year from a paternal relative who's just as sick as the person who asked her accomplice to pass the message. how pathetic of them, obviously this people need professional help. i remember when i was young the parents of my classmates back in grade school would ask me if my mom was my sister. that is how close our resemblance are. whether they are just buttering up my mother or if it was a sincere observation i don't care.
i said this before in my friendster blog and i am saying it again, i don't care if Corazon Q. Cruz is my biological mother or not. so what if i was adopted? should i not be more thankful of her and also Saleh Rolando Cruz for taking me in? This people bashing my mother do not know what a real mother means. its not the biological relation anymore, Corazon Q. Cruz fulifilled her duty as a woman to raise a child, with that she became a mother. she imparted her wisdom that she gained from her experiences. she fed me and clothed me and brought me to school. nursed me when i am sick and still checks on me till now. the mere fact that she made me call her Mama was enough.
stop bashing my mother! you won't get anything from it. now if this maternal relative do know who my bilogical mother is she can go ahead and tell to whomever she deems. she's up for an embarrassment, because i will never appreciate such violation she has given the person who have raised me let alone how my mother put up to all of her mulling and what have she.
i am secure with who i came to know as my mother... and you can not make me come to accept another person. i apologize i am sticking to who i have now...
carpe diem... ü
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